Green Sound Shanghai escape rice woman is a fake, but this thing is true! – Sohu-g-area meru

Green Sound: "Shanghai escape rice woman" is a fake, but this thing is true! Sohu early this morning, we will be in a spring festival has hurt our heart’s news once again hurt — the original, it is false news, to marketing and hype out of the story! "Shanghai escape rice female" no bottom line of speculation is indeed very shameful, but in a rap at the same time, there is a fact that cannot be ignored, that is — for our most from the University began in the city of young people, our hometown has already can’t go back, not people can not go back, our hearts can’t go back. For example, you could hardly endure the home can not flush toilets, the home that no heating drilling shivering with cold cold and wet bed, home cooking is not the lampblack machine, choking people coughing black greasy kitchen…… But it’s not the most important thing. The most important thing is that you can no longer tolerate the empty spiritual world of the old people! Their entertainment may be just playing Mah Jong, but you want someone to talk to you about a play, a concert, even if it’s the latest movie. They do love you and care about you, so they ask you, "how much do you make a month?" When do you get married? Where did the house go?" But in your opinion, this is a violation of your privacy and boundaries, you actually want talk to them you want to be "better" this thing…… So, you find your home and became the two world you do not understand, where you came from, but you no longer belong there — the hometown, became a us mentally very close to, but the reality is the existence of a lopsided. This reality, it makes people feel very sad, but at the same time, I have to every one in the big city of hard work hard young you say "Congratulations", you compared with the people in my hometown, you can see a broader world. And you, you can use your energy to drive home people. The rich, not only reflected in the material, now let’s home life is getting better and better every day, but the spirit of the world more fullness of this thing, yet did not keep up, you can try: one, to give up the "useful" and "useless" evaluation. You are in a big city, whether it is to know a friend, or learn a skill, not only pay attention to "it is useful to me, but also to care about is that" it can let me learn "and" it can make me happy"! In the person’s life, there must be some not what but let oneself happy love, must be given some help what busy, but can make you feel happy friends, this day is worth living! That’s what’s been popular for a while – "waste your life on small things that are beautiful but useless."". Two, give up "who I want to learn", but "I want to be a better myself.""! It’s never too late to be "yourself", but you need to get rid of a lot of inner bonds. For example, no more emphasis on external evaluation, no longer the moral kidnapping of others or emotional manipulation to suppress?

青音:“上海逃饭女”是假的,可这事儿却是真的!-搜狐   今天一大早,大家就被一个在春节期间已经伤了我们心的新闻再次伤到了――原来,是假新闻,是为了营销和炒作编出来的故事!   “上海逃饭女”这样毫无底线的炒作确实非常可耻,但是在斥责的同时,有一个事实是不能被忽略的,那就是――对于我们这样大多数从大学时代就开始在大城市打拼的年轻人,我们的故乡其实已经回不去了,不是人回不去了,是我们的心回不去了。   比如,你大概很难再忍受老家那不能冲水的厕所、老家那没有暖气的一钻进去就冷得直打哆嗦的阴冷潮湿的被窝、老家那个做饭没有抽油烟机的,呛得人直咳嗽的黑乎乎油乎乎的厨房……   但这并不是最重要的,最重要的是,你大概再也无法忍受老家人的空虚的精神世界!   他们的娱乐可能就只是打打麻将,但你多希望有人也能跟你聊聊话剧、音乐会,哪怕最新上映的电影也好。他们的确爱你关心你,所以他们会问你:“一个月挣多少钱呀?啥时候结婚呀?房子买哪儿了?”   可是在你看来,这根本就是侵犯了你的隐私和边界,你其实多希望跟他们聊聊你想成为“更好的自己”这件事……   于是,你发现你和故乡成了相互听不懂的两个世界,你来自那里,但你却早已不再属于那里――故乡,成了一个我们在心理上非常想亲近,但现实却渐行渐远的存在了。   这个现实,它让人很伤感,但与此同时,我得对每一个在大城市里辛辛苦苦打拼的年轻的你说一声“恭喜”,你跟故乡的人相比,你得以见识到一个更大更广阔的世界。而你,是可以用你的活力来带动家乡的人的。   人的富足,不是只体现在物质,现在咱们老家的生活都在一天一天好起来了,但是精神世界更丰满这件事,暂时还没跟上,你可以努力:   一、放弃掉对“有用”和“无用”的评判。你在大城市里,无论是结识一个朋友,还是学一项技能,不要只关注“它对我有用”,更要在意的是“它能让我学到”和“它能让我快乐”!   在人的一生里,一定要有一些没什么用但是让自己开心的爱好,一定要交一些帮不上什么忙,但是能让自己觉得幸福的朋友,这样的日子才是值得过的!这也就是前一阵子很流行的观点――“把生命浪费在美好但是没用的小事上”。   二、 放弃掉“我要学习谁”,而是“我要成为更好的我自己”!“成为自己”这件事,任何时候开始都不晚,但是你需要先去掉很多内心的羁绊。比如,不再去过分看重外在评价,不再拿别人的道德绑架或者是情感操控来压抑和攻击自己,不再要求自己做一个完美的人,不再害怕别人对自己失望,不再恐惧跟人发生冲突甚至是矛盾等等……当你能够跟你自己和解,你会发现,全世界对你都温柔起来了!   告诉你一个小秘密,以上其实也就是我和我们的“心联网科技”花费了大半年的时间,筹备“青音魔法学院”真正的初心――我和我们精彩的魔法导师们一起,给你上一些“无用”的魔法课,但是我深深地相信,它们一定会让你更爱你自己,它们会将你的心灵点亮!   今天晚上21点,一个小时以后,我将会为大家开办一次免费的线上公开课。任何人都可以参加,你只要扫描这个二维码,就可以在手机上听到我的课――   我会让大家提前免费体验一下我们的“魔法课堂”究竟长什么样,我等着你!   人生苦短,何不有爱有趣?要听课,就听最好的!让我们一起,成为更好的自己!我们一会儿见!   ???   以下为2月22日――2月25日期间的课程购买链接,只要扫码购买,就可以收听我们的“魔法课程”啦!   如果你已经通过“京东众筹”和“有赞商城”购买过课程,可以跳过下面的内容,坐等开课就好啦!   p.s:所有课程的购买,仅限于手机微信端,PC端(即电脑)是无法购买的噢!   2月22日晚21点,“我有爱”心理课   魔法导师:穆楷   《你真的认识你自己吗?――提升自我觉察力的方法》   ?   ???   2月23日晚21点,“我有趣”兴趣课   魔法导师:张楠   《如何提高你声音的“颜值”》   2月24日晚21点,“我有爱”心理课   魔法导师:丁力   《“爱你在心口难开”的人,如何“开口”表达你的爱》   2月25日晚21点,“我有趣”兴趣课   魔法导师:皂皂   《皂皂女王带你走进香皂的前世今生》   ?相关的主题文章:

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